Do you know why I chose this article? Because, men hold penis size in
such high regard. The penis for men is another being, something that
looks like being outside of their bodies. Who never heard a man say-"hey,
you down there, be quite" or else "Sweat pie, he is awaken" and other
remarks as such. Nevertheless, this not from yesterday, and there's
underlying in this demeanour all that business of praising it. Since
times immemorial, the phallic cult has left its hallmark, and certain
determining factors for such overrating, were related to deities, fertility,
sorcery, power and strength.
In a nutshell, in ancient Greece, the phallus was worshiped with
flowers and carried along during festivities. Yet, at the Egyptian
parties, celebration was the same, that is, with women bearing statues
of a hardon penis-like of 50cm long, which were dangled about by means
of strings harnessed to their bodies.
Ultimately, accounts on worship and devotion are numerous, mystery
ridden of sprees of power, courage and strength.
In almost all societies, the demands of strength and courage always
befall on men. In having the penis as their official and direct representative,
all demands aimed to them, end up by being turned over to him, the
penis, and therein lays all this waffle that a man and his penis are
two in the same body.
Men are very harsh on themselves when it comes to, size, rigidity
and erection, for they need a high degree of competence, of reliability.
As in must give that ride to their sex partners, or something is not
working, otherwise. This may bring about subsequently insecurity and
low self-esteem.
To men, by and large, the penis matter, it's such an issue, let'
say, touchy, and very important. Those who considered their penises
too small live worrying about their sexual performance, ashamed of
exposing themselves; with inferiority hang ups of wearing tight fitting
clothing, of using public toilets. In contrast, those long penised
ones need to show off through exhibitionist remarks.
It is around the 16 years of age that the penis reaches its full-grown
size.
There are certain curiosities that should be exposed so that there
will be no doubts or regrets to matters size and its interference
in the sexual relation.
For example, a small penis may double up its size in erection. It
is known that the structure of the penile body is elastic and dynamic,
likely to retract under rogue conditions or even stress.
Women are aware of that, but for a man what counts is size- as for
them, size is sexual warranty. For all that, its fretting inside the
vagina leaves a woman sexually rather satisfied, that undoubtedly
a woman could affirm with certainty.
That lovely thrusting and throbbing back and forth, renders any woman
worth her lipstick ultimately satisfied with room left for some more.
Therefore, men, past and present, don't overestimate the size of
your penises and work on that rubbing, it's pleasure guaranteed.
By Adriana
Sommer da Costa
Psychologist and Sexologist
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