In writing about sex for elderly people, enables us to ponder about something wonderful. Why sexuality translates an idea of life, way of life, of perceiving and connecting to the surrounding world? All of our aspirations, desires are intrinsically connected to our sexuality.
In addition, for the sake of ageing, why not devising an elderly couple dating,
enjoying a kiss, a hug, reaching out for the synchrony of tenderness, to live
up sexuality that is, and sex makes presence in any phase of life.
Restrictions or any given factor certainly can decrease the capacity, the sexual intensity, but stops existing for the sake of ageing, never ever should such
a thought permeate the minds of humans.
Nonetheless, this taken from where the last issue left out is meant for describing
further the five approached categories.
Sexual boredom- whenever loss of interest in sex occurs. As a
result of a sexual relation not being taken further than the stage of
submissive indulgence or the physical necessity of sexual tension relief
or even both. Much as there can developed from a relation whose sexual component isn't mature, or didn't follow the other phases of relationship.
The sexual tedious' major compliant stems from the fact that the female
partner no longer sees use for working something out. The reasons leading to
all this boredom, might've been lost along the way, with demanding kids, or
any other combination of alienating interests. An elderly man's ego is especially
vulnerable to rejection, whether real or illusory.
Financial and professional concerns- most men ranging between 40 to 60's are
about competitive peak in their activities and end up by being sunken in. Aren't
we all prone to a bad hair day? All influences for a bad sexual performance
of both men and women.
Physical and Mental fatigue- it'd play major role in the devolution of male
sexuality. By hampering male sexual response. Gradually as one
gets older, anything demands a great deal of energy in that lack of sexual response. Such sensibility of the male sexuality to the mental fatigue
is one of the major discrepancies between a middle-aged man and a younger one.
Physical and mental diseases- incidence appears abruptly around the forties
and thereabouts.
The fear of failure- once impotent by any given circumstance a great many men
voluntarily retire from any sexual activity. Therein lies the fear of
a lax sexual performance. Instead of pulling a brave face in confront
to repetitive episodes of sexual inaptness.
Sexual rapport should be constantly checked, adding to physical well being
and a good mental approach to the ageing process. All of which would only contribute
further to the ambiance of sexual stimulation within marriage.
Achieving all that sex can bring about sound as if intending to get
as far as the 80's and over taken the most out of owns' sexuality.
Adriana Sommer da Costa
Psychologist and Sexologist
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